Her concept of the four tendencies, which describes how people respond to inner and outer expectations, resonates really strongly with me. I'm a classic upholder, which means I find it relatively easy to meet both internal and external expectations. When I decide to do something, I generally don't have difficulty sticking to it. (My mother might say I have questioner tendencies, which I certainly did as a younger person, but I have drifted away from them.)
I also seem to lean towards being an abstainer, which means I am comfortable with an all-or-nothing strategy versus trying to moderate myself.
These tendencies go a long way towards explaining why the Whole 30 hasn't been too much of a struggle for me. I committed to myself that I'm doing it, so I'm doing it. The plan comprises a set of rules I can follow, which takes everyday decision making out of my hands. I don't have to ask myself each day whether I will have cheese or chocolate or not; I just know those items to be off limits for now.
In tandem with my Whole 30, I've adopted a new daily walking habit this month. I resuscitated my Jawbone UP24 fitness tracker and set a goal of 6,000 steps a day. I realize the goal is low compared to the commonly recommended 10,000 steps, but I wanted to set a bar that I knew I could meet consistently. To ensure I meet the goal, I've started taking a short walk nearly every day before lunch. During this walk, I usually listen to a Happier podcast (self-reinforcing habits)! This strategy has worked really well for me-- I've met the goal each day, and my daily average step count is actually closer to 7,500. The lunchtime walk has the added benefit of giving me a chance to clear my head in the middle of the work day. In February, I will increase my daily goal to 7,000.
As I near the end of the Whole 30, I've been considering how I want to adjust my eating habits when it is over. Thinking about it through Rubin's lenses has been very helpful. More to come on this in my next post.